This makes me happy that you feel guided. Stay true to yourself! Hi Apollonia my name is Kennedy, I have been dating a girl for 4 years and she broke up with me and I accept but she keep on talking to me any time we meet in the church and also call me. Please Apollonia what should I do. Hi Kennedy, I would not focus on an outcome with her and not be available too much for her at this moment.
Just talk to her at church with no expectation for something in the future. Hi Steven, Thank you for reading my blog about she rejected me but still acts interested. All I can say sis Apollonia, another authentic blog! I just wish men can have abundant mindsets just like women.
Hi apollonia your blog was excellent, i have read it at the right time. I am working in UK. There is a girl working in a nearby restaurant who is from France. One day during conversations she mentioned she is going back to France for one month holiday. What does it mean? I am married and had this lady who was into me.
She knew i was married from day one and we dated then her ex once came back and physically assaulted her, from there she just told me she is broken and she is just distant. I miss her emotionally she was that person i needed. Am trying to let go but not sure if i can cope, i just feel so in love with her. Hi Mike. It sounds like she might have started to get scared off.
I would pull back and let her come to you more. I would need to know more about the situation to better coach you through. I will always be too much into a woman I like. I will never lie to her about that or hide it from her. I will never be the prize of any woman, as I never saw any woman sexually wanting me at my whole life. Nonetheless, for me, the major reason for I being always been rejected by any kind of woman is that I am simply too much shy, too much physically unattractive and have a very unattractive way of being.
My solution was accepting this fate and living as happy as possible the rest of my life without sex or romance, just with my family, friends, job, trips and other kinds of fun, sincerely thanking God for every day of my life He gives me. I asked this girl out really wanting to be her boyfriend and she gave me several reasons like 1 Im not really in a place to be dating relationships are complicated 2 she said she would want us to be friends 3 at one point she said she has a boyfriend Whenever I called her she would pick up and most of the times when I asked to see her she didnt really give an excuse.
We kinda work at the same office block then she comes to see me at work and asks me why I didnt text her back or check on her and telling me she was sick and she did not come to work yesterday. Where is she really playing at cos to me she sounds confused.
Your advice would really help. This sounds like she just wants your attention for the ego boosts. I would start dating other women and not give her any attention. Or if you want… when she comes in to your office you can play her game, throw it back at her. What did I do if I love a woman and knew it but still pretending and still tryin to take you out with her other men. What if I love a woman a she knew it but still pretend and calling me for dinner,,billiard game with other men.
Hi, at first i initiated for conversation with her on whatsapp. Then she stopped replying me whenever i messaged her she sees it but not replied back. Let me focus my studies.. Now she talks to me replies me. But still she says she likes me as a friend and i think i should stop talking with her. As i posted before on top. Why are you still spending time with a woman who rejected you? You need to make her accountable for the words that come out of her mouth.
For too long men have allowed women to lie to them; saying one thing while meaning another. If she told you no, believe she meant no. Why would you go out with a liar? If she becomes truly attracted to you after rejecting you, she will have to come to you, apologize, and ask you for another chance.
They are all trying to get your money by slapping you with a false harassment claim. Hello, I stumbled upon your blog by accident. Well, perhaps law of attraction helped me find this blog.
I just want to say these tips are not just for men, but for women too. I am a lesbian and appreciate the blog. Women frustrate me and although I have been applying my own technique—I would tell myself that I am free! Free to be me and be happy with that. I believe words are very powerful along with prayers. I would close my eyes and picture myself releasing all the confused energy out to the universe. If not, I can move on because I am Free.
Hey Annette. Thank you for taking the time to read She Rejected me but still acts interested. Thank you for commenting and stopping by my blog. Wishing you the best, Apollonia. Hi Morayo, thank you for taking the time to read she rejected me but still acts interested. You were giving her attention and boosting her ego, of course, she wants that back. I would really suggest going slow and getting to know someone, and when someone tells you about themselves, listen.
There are plenty of women out there who ARE available. Holy cow, You could not have said anything better. This blog was a message from the heavens. Wow, just hearing the confirmation from another woman was a huge help. But , I will be honest and you may want to tell readers to be kind with this new power they will now wield.
I have certainly used for evil n revenge n ruined a few lives I now regret. If I could make a donation I certainly would. Hey Carlo. It should only be used for the right reasons. Thanks for stopping by and reading she rejected mt but still acts interested. And then I told her that since she did not see it that way we could just keep it friendly.
Hello, great article. I matched a girl on Tinder she had a general nature picture, and my account is the same. We stayed chatting and listening to her she was relaxed told me why you listen to all my stories are a psychiatrist I laughed and said no.
She replied why you wanna know more about me? All the time I was kind and caring towards her and she was liking that and she found me so nice, gentle and sweet. What I want to have a good relationship with her, I really like her and would like to be in a relationship but not go towards marriage just keep it on the level of boyfriend and girlfriend with love and loyalty.
Your advise how fix the situation and let her take forward steps is highly appreciated and needed. I have a problem that is I purposes a girl and first time I say her friends I want talk to my crush than she says I will through u shoes second time I say her that I have urgent work with u please meet me somewhere than she says okay and second time she says I have realation but when she says this she was thinking what I will say and third time I say her another time she says from there I am not interested in this what is this matter please help me.
I then decided to tell her through the phone and when i did, she just took it as a joke and used the laughing emoji but after some few minutes she realized that i was serious and know she is delaying in replying my messages. Yesterday i sent a voice note and asked her what she thinks or feels but she completely ignored my message…. Emmanuel, Yes. Also thanks for reading my blog about she rejected me. Thank you for the article n advice.
I am in the same situation now. I have chatting and talking with a girl for last 1 year.. We live in different countries.
She came to visit me for 3 days. I was already attracted towards her before we met. After meeting her I got hooked and developed real feeling and I really thought she feels the same way. But I confessed all on the phone after she went back and she told me she likes me as a friend.
I know I missed my chance and I screwed the situation myself. Now she still talks n jokes around likes before. I am really confused n hurting!! Hi Apolloni,my situation is way different. We dated for 2yrs and just this February ,she told me she is not interested.
However,she still sends me chats,pictures of herself,occasionally calls me and tells me about things she is doing. Yet she says she is no longer interested so I am a bit confused. When I read her message and dint reply on time,she gets angry and feels ignored. This is my own concern and I need you to help explain this.
Hi Henry, If she rejected you then it seems like she also likes you attention. Eliminate the attention more and switch the balance of control. Once you make her wonder she may come to you. Hi Apollonia, I read your blog, you gave us men some good advice. But i still have some questions, specifically on the 4 main points that you explained above. One of the points was clear to me that a girl might reject you but still shows an interest on you because she sees you as a friend.
But I still have some concerns about the other 3 reasons that you explained, for instance a girl rejects a guy because he is too much into her than she is to him, this makes him less desirable.
So, if a girl has rejected a guy because of that reason, why is she still acting interested? What is the point of acting interested on someone that pushed you away because he seemed too desperate to be with you?. I saw an explanation that some women want the attention from men that they have rejected, but what is the point anyways? If a woman rejected a man because he was showing too much attention to her, then why would she act interested in order to get that attention that she does not want in the first place?
If her aim was just to have fun or to flirt with a guy but she rejected him because he was serious, why does she still act interested on that guy? Is she waiting for him to change? So my main concern is why would a woman still act interested on a guy if she has lost interest on him and rejected him? From what I know or read about, is that if a woman rejects a man, she also ignores him. So why do some women act interested in order to have the attention from the men that they are not interested in?
What is the point of that? Do you think your girlfriend was justified in asking for more time? I think she was, if you take into account the fact that what you asked her to do was spend the rest of her life with you. Three years is a long time, but both people in a relationship need to arrive at the same stage together, for things to move to the next level. If she is not at the same place you're in, that's perfectly normal and acceptable. If you accept that, you are halfway towards simply calling her and apologising for your outburst.
What this boils down to is how important she is in your life, and whether or not her absence will have an adverse impact on your well-being. Think long and hard, then choose wisely. What is the right amount of time one must stay single after a break-up before moving on to a new relationship?
When you're dealing with a painful emotion like rejection, it's easy to get caught up in the bad feeling. But dwelling on the negative stuff can feel like living the experience over and over again. Not only does it keep hurting, it becomes harder to get past the rejection.
So admit how you feel but don't dwell on it. Avoid talking or thinking about it nonstop. Negative thinking influences our expectations and how we act. Getting stuck in a negative outlook might even bring about more rejection. It certainly doesn't inspire a person to try again. Now on to what you think: Consider how you're explaining the rejection to yourself. Are you being too hard on yourself? It's natural to wonder, "Why did this happen?
Tell yourself: "I got turned down for prom because the person didn't want to go with me. They're imagining a reason, reading too much into a situation. If put-down thoughts like these start creeping into your mind, shut them down.
Self-blaming or put-down thinking can exaggerate our faults and lead us to believe stuff about ourselves that simply isn't true. This kind of thinking crowds out hope and a belief in ourselves — the very things we need to get past feeling bad and want to try again. If you start blaming yourself for the rejection or put yourself down, you can start believing you'll always be rejected.
Thoughts like, "I'll never get a date" or "No one will ever like me" amplify a simple rejection to disaster level. Rejection can hurt a lot and can be terribly disappointing, but it's not the end of the world. Tell yourself: "OK, so I got rejected this time. Maybe next time, I'll get a 'yes'" or "Oh, well. This is what happened. I don't like it. It's not how I wanted things to work out.
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