I love crying at sad movies. And there is no sadder or more tear-inducing movie than The Notebook. He refuses to watch The Notebook, and I think the first time I made him watch it, he poked me in the side and ribbed me for being so pathetically emotional. I could watch the movie over and over and over again, and cry every single time, preferably alone.
After breaking up, he writes to her everyday for one year, letters, rebuilds her dream house and informs every woman he meets that he still loves Ally. It just requires some learning and re-adjustment of heads, on the part of men. Any little pansy, or hulking brute, can learn these qualities. This is the best ever article in my romantic searchings.
The tips are well relevant to reality on board. Am gona make a move in my unsuccessful attempts ever experienced. Thanks to all! Com : The ultimate reviewing experience TheReviewHunter. You have got to be kidding me? That is what a guy is supposed to do? Are you really that self absorbed that you think you can live your life doing whatever and whomever you want and Mr Fantasy Land Notebook guy should beg for you everyday for a year?
You have got to be kidding me! There is no way you would be happy if a guy did exactly what is outlined above. You would say he is a stalker, a loser, obsessed, and unable to provide for all of your financial needs. Grow up girls! Pingback: orlandofuture. Pingback: Obsessions: Gosling is hot and yet not The Most famous artists. Pingback: Obsessions: Gosling is hot and yet not Around the News. However I know from experience that those 10 points are spot on, and it need only take a moment to set the whole thing in motion.
I think the author has not experienced this kind of love, or else he would have known to include that all-important reason. I am guessing that Ally did something for Noah that he very badly needed and that no-one else had done.
Somehow, she saved his bacon, and he loved her forever in gratitude. Sad and beautiful at the same time. This story of the Notebook is very personal to me because it is my story with Nate. We dated in highschool, my parents separated us. He dated others, and even dated a woman for TEN years. They never got married.
A gut feeling that it was the right person. But it never came. And when we started dating he realized pretty early on, THIS is the feeling he had been waiting for, the confirmation. He felt it in high school and he remembered it. And we got married. Again, this has nothing to do with me doing anything for Nate. It has everything to do with the fact that 12 years ago, Nate and I met and we were the right match. I feel like to some people writing every day for a year is just too much work.
What a great movie, not from an entertainment standpoint at all but from a position of identifying something none of us understand about ourselves without trying to explain it away. And if someone slightly better comes along, all the less her responsibility. Of course, none of us are capable of understanding this completely, even if we have experienced passionate love or even the more permanent form of long-lasting connection that seems to be so rare now.
Pure narcissism if you ask me. Thanks again, Midori. I LOVE that verse! Several things were not in her control. She wanted Noah to communicate with her. Her mother kept the letters away. She anticipated the arrival of his letters and kept hopeful for some time as well. They argued just as all couples do, but in the end she always defended him in front of her parents. Man is made to pursue… Allie is made to respond if she is interested: and she did eventually give in! True love is a wonderful thing, and, it seems, comparatively rare, as are men like Noah and Nate and me.
The alternative, to do nothing instead, would be excruciatingly painful. Wes, I appreciate your open-minded questioning approach. What does Allie have to do? All she has to do is be Allie. Excellent article and easy to understand explanation. How do I go about getting permission to post part of the article in my upcoming news letter?
Giving proper credit to you the author and link to the site would not be a problem. So could the house be the ark? And Allie the animal helpless creature that needs to be rescued? Does not seem very equal in the relationship, disrespectful to the character that is Allie. Guess that is what love is. Random guy… Wow what a metaphor! This article is awesome!!!!! Just to know that someone is going to love you unconditionally and irrevocably through anything would make my heart melt.
I didnt find Noah weird or anything. He was spontaneous and persistent. He told her the truth even when it hurt her feelings.
He was loyal to her. He treated her with the greatest respect. I also commend her mother for stepping up and telling Allie that she once had a guy similar to Noah. Watching that movie gave me hope and I am going to get my Noah. You are wise for waiting! Great article — made a lot of sense. EVERY woman has this listed as her favorite movie on match. There are a number of men out there who do love with similar devotion and passion but end up being cheated on, divorced or abused.
What we would love to find is a woman who has prepared herself and is emotionally ready to receive this kind of love. The weight is just on men to deliver this kind of love, which I realize is an issue, but also on women to be emotionally healthy enough at some point to receive it. Men are human too and fortunately in the movie Noah reaped the fruit of his love as he was moving on.
Well articulated. And listening can be far apart from hearing. Anyone else, it just seems like a lot of work. Intriguing article. Great post. I learnt a stack of really good things from this. Keep up the good work. Great info. Lucky me I came across your site by accident stumbleupon. I have book marked it for later! Pingback: porn fast fuck.
Your email address will not be published. Dating Advice. Seriously, you just fall in love with how he loves Allie. So guys, take some notes. Women love… 1. Noah 6. This shows us that loving others is your greatest priority. That kind of man is hard to find! Tweet Share Pin it Comment. This movie is bullshit.
But Noah, still wearing that hat, woos her at a movie double date. She protests, but he says she can only prove otherwise by lying in the middle of the road. They nearly die and she finds this hilarious. Next up, a falling-in-love montage.
I continue to be charmed. I understand the horrid newsboy cap is supposed to denote their differing socio-economic backgrounds. He teaches her country things like driving and swimming. Her father looks like a s detective with a twiddly mustache and a cigar. They meet Noah and disapprove of him.
They go to an abandoned house that Noah plans to buy one day. She plays an out-of-tune piano seductively and they decide to have sex. I think he is, you know. Back to the old couple from the beginning. I think they might be an old Allie and an old Noah. I think Noah is trying to remind her of her old life.
When they find each other years later, Gosling clearly thinks that McAdams will just fall back in love with him. And the casting of Marsden is key. And then found out that she left him behind. That girl who you thought forgot you REALLY forgot you, so much so that you need to tell her the story of you two every day. I have a theory that most guys have a point—usually around 23 or 24, maybe later—when they realize that they are actually going to get older and weaker.
Your love has forgotten you!
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